What if my child doesn’t cooperate in photos? This is a common question among parents thinking about hiring a family photographer. It’s a valid question, but not one you should put too much energy into. Children’s unpredictability is part of their magic and why I love to photograph them!
Please notice the difference in the two photos above. In the first, the little girl felt shy and uncertain about me. We had only met ten minutes prior, so I think that’s a perfectly normal response. But in the second photo, which was taken about mid-way through our session, she was much less reserved. She still wanted to be near Mom, but I think those are the sweetest photos, so no complaints here.
On the rare occasion, a child doesn’t interact with the camera, but we’re still able to create some beautiful still moments and some more playful ones, even without eye contact.
My best advice for loosening up your children is to play with them. Be silly; play games; sing songs; dance. In the photo above, the child was apprehensive, but quickly grew into the biggest ham! She had fun because her mom had fun.
As you can see through these transition photos, there’s no need to worry. The question, “What if my child doesn’t cooperate in photos?” doesn’t carry much weight with me. In almost all situations, although they may feel unsure, shy, and sometimes even grumpy about being photographed, they almost never remain that way. I’d like to think I have a little something to do with them opening up. I have two children of my own and taught elementary school for fifteen years. I enjoy them and I love letting them dictate a family session. It’s fun to follow them around with my camera. And I honestly prefer a little spitfire!
I’ve written about this sort of topic before. Please read Spunky Kids Make Great Family Portraits. Contact me to book your family session, especially if you have unpredictable, lovable, lively, little ones!
